The 9 Service Languages | Intensive Session Wrap Up Thoughts

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On Sunday, I wrapped up my first small group FULL INTENSIVE workshop that spanned 6+ hours over the course of 2 days. Anyone who has sat through my Intro class knows, The 9 Service Languages is a fucking BIG IDEA! When I first launched my class, I naively believed it could be tackled in a typical 90-minute or 2-hour session. I quickly learned that was impossible and that few platforms (cons, orgs, mtgs) had the ability to hold space for me and attendees to get DEEP in the weeds of WIITWD as it relates to Service. I am PROFOUNDLY HONORED that @S-O-C—the Service Oriented Conference—reached out to me earlier this year to be a part of their inaugural Intensive Program. They were the perfect partner with the perfect target audience for an Intensive of The 9 Service Languages of Authority Transfer Relationships/Dynamics. The session allowed me to work with a small group as we got our hands dirty, dissecting where, when, how, and why we do Service and considered ways to adjust, tweak, evol...
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Fire & Ice

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Everything before this was then.
This is Now.

Many, many things have changed.
Some have not.

I’m still at my core a whore.
I’m still in my soul a submissive.

I’m still searching for that relationship where I can truly be a submissive whore.

My Journey Through the Dark has had many ups and downs.  Shit happens.  Hopes I had once nurtured are no more.  Beliefs I had once held have been overwritten with truth. I embrace truth no matter how deep it burns and learn from my mistakes.  (No…the general public will not get details. Go find your soap opera elsewhere.)  Yet despite it all, I regret no part of my journey to date.  I have acted with honor at every step and discovered much about myself: who I truly am and all that I am capable of.

So what else has changed?

A ton of practicalities:  I live in NYC.  I am single and have been for quite a while.  Due to circumstance beyond my control, the kinky, naughty side of my lioness has fallen into a slumber, which I’m actively trying to wake again.  However, the biggest change is I am stronger and happier now than I have ever been in my life.  I plan to enjoy every minute of it I can.

In the next chapter of My Journey I seek only that which adds to my strength, happiness, and well-being.  Yes, in being without an Owner/Dom a significant piece of me is missing.  I hope someday to find a Dom strong and wise enough to hold my leash, but I will not be less in order for a D/M to be above me nor will I curl up in a ball and stop living without a D.  I am still a lioness, not the average stupid little submissive lamb begging to be led by any fool claiming a title he neither respects nor understands. 

The submission of a lioness requires much.  I know.  I am complicated.  I can’t and won’t apologize for it.  I am simply me.  For an intelligent Man of strength, courage, wisdom, and honor, I will be His greatest asset and devoted sub.  For a select few who I trust and respect, I’ll be a cherished friend who will have their back through thick and thin.  For the rest, I will be nothing more than a missed opportunity or a wish never to be fulfilled.

With every word I type – whether a diary-esque post, a bit of hot raunchy erotica (either fact or fiction), or just rambling thoughts on sex, kinky, and BDSM – my goal is to fan the flames of my dark passions and melt the cold prison that hides my true nature.  If you can’t respect or encourage those goals…go elsewhere.

My next chapter begins.
~DominaKat

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