The 9 Service Languages | Intensive Session Wrap Up Thoughts

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On Sunday, I wrapped up my first small group FULL INTENSIVE workshop that spanned 6+ hours over the course of 2 days. Anyone who has sat through my Intro class knows, The 9 Service Languages is a fucking BIG IDEA! When I first launched my class, I naively believed it could be tackled in a typical 90-minute or 2-hour session. I quickly learned that was impossible and that few platforms (cons, orgs, mtgs) had the ability to hold space for me and attendees to get DEEP in the weeds of WIITWD as it relates to Service. I am PROFOUNDLY HONORED that @S-O-C—the Service Oriented Conference—reached out to me earlier this year to be a part of their inaugural Intensive Program. They were the perfect partner with the perfect target audience for an Intensive of The 9 Service Languages of Authority Transfer Relationships/Dynamics. The session allowed me to work with a small group as we got our hands dirty, dissecting where, when, how, and why we do Service and considered ways to adjust, tweak, evol...
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Feminists...Don't Fuck with my Sexuality, Bitches

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I could be about to stir a pot and create a shitstorm, but maybe sticking my foot in my mouth (as some will likely view this post) will start some productive counter discussion to the hot mess I see spewing into the mainstream culture.

Dear Uber Feminists and Social Justice Warriors for Women...stop fucking trying to make to make my sexuality disappear. Seriously, bitches...don't fuck with the core of My womanhood. You can't shame me for it, and stop fucking shaming Men for appreciating it.  What the fucking FUCK is THAT???

I wholeheartedly GET that I am way, way, WAY more than a sexual object. Any guy, girl, gender fluid person who doesn't believe that my sexuality is just a piece of me is a short sighted foolish asshat in my eyes.  But just because I am more than my sexuality, does NOT mean I should hide, ignore, or deny the beauty, the joy, and the sheer fucking amazing power of my feminine sexuality in whatever damn form I choose to display it in. And no one else should be criticized for appreciating, enjoying, and celebrating it WITH ME.

I love and adore my big tits, fat ass, and greedy mother fuckin holes. I fucking LOVE that I suck out-fucking-standing dick.  I LOVE getting fucked in my pussy and in my ass.  I LOVE being a sexual Goddess/Freak/Slut/Whore to my Man and anyone else He chooses to share me with with. I fucking LOVE that my Man takes pride in my sexuality and uses it for His Own damn selfish pleasure.

Yes...in a professional business setting I COMPLETELY embrace my right to be judged solely on my professional skills not whether or not I put out.
Yes...I COMPLETELY embrace that no one has the right to touch me without consent.

However, I'm not offended when I walk down a New York City street and a man looks me over with an appreciative smile.  I'm not offended when a guy stops me on the street to say, "I just have to tell you, you look amazing." I'm not offended when a 20-something on the subway asks me if I'm related to Wonder Woman, cuz I could save him anytime."

Seriously bitches...relax. Deep breath. Feminine beauty, curves, sexuality is NOT an enemy of women gaining ground in the workplace or in decreasing sexual assault in the world. It is a fundamental root of WHO we ARE. The goal should not be to tear it down and force everyone to put mental and emotional blinders on so they are forced to deny our sexuality existence.  The goal needs to be...that ALL of us (guys, girls, a gender fluid persons) embrace, cherish, and HONOR a woman's sexuality in all of its different consensual flavors, personas, and visions.

In my opinion...to do anything less is anti-feminist and women-hating.

By no means do I believe this is the final version of my thoughts.  Unlike a lot of people, I actually embrace evolution in myself and seek growth and change. I welcome intellectual discourse and challenging insights.  

 And with that...my big beautiful tits, my luscious fat ass, and my hungry dick-taking holes send this out into the ether...
~DominaKat

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