The 9 Service Languages | Intensive Session Wrap Up Thoughts

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On Sunday, I wrapped up my first small group FULL INTENSIVE workshop that spanned 6+ hours over the course of 2 days. Anyone who has sat through my Intro class knows, The 9 Service Languages is a fucking BIG IDEA! When I first launched my class, I naively believed it could be tackled in a typical 90-minute or 2-hour session. I quickly learned that was impossible and that few platforms (cons, orgs, mtgs) had the ability to hold space for me and attendees to get DEEP in the weeds of WIITWD as it relates to Service. I am PROFOUNDLY HONORED that @S-O-C—the Service Oriented Conference—reached out to me earlier this year to be a part of their inaugural Intensive Program. They were the perfect partner with the perfect target audience for an Intensive of The 9 Service Languages of Authority Transfer Relationships/Dynamics. The session allowed me to work with a small group as we got our hands dirty, dissecting where, when, how, and why we do Service and considered ways to adjust, tweak, evol...
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My Kinky Inequality

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There is no equality in my kink.

Read that again.

Notice the key words "MY kink."

I'm not talking about my expectations for the community as a whole.  I'm not talking about the big ol' world of Fet.  I'm not talking about any munches, classes, play spaces, or events.  I'm talking about MY own personal kinky shit here.

In my corner of the sandbox aka my profile/my sex life/my relationships I get to set MY own damn boundaries without apology, and my consensual kink is very much all about some unequality.  Don't look for fucking politically correctness here.  It doesn't exist.

I crave Male Dominance - a male Owner who enjoys the fuck out of Controlling me, Conquering me, making me his nasty whore.  How un-fucking-feminist of me.

I seek acts of Male violence on my Female flesh and mindfucks that would cause a nun to swoon.  Not something vanilla #MeToo would embrace.

I get hot and horny when my Male Owner objectifies me, uses me, degrades and humiliates me for His pleasure.  Yes, I know I'm spitting in the face of women's rights and their demand for respect.

Notice how I deliberately referenced Male in the Top/D/M/Sadist roles?  My submission is heterosexual.  I am a sexist bitch when it comes to who I will allow Power over me.  Gonna burn my LGBTQ flag?

As far as my Top...I'm indiscriminate in the sex, sexuality, gender, race, age, etc of who might inspire me to Control and hurt them.  Just fucking inspire me, and we can negotiate some very unequal play that revolves around bottoming/submitting to Me for the moment.  Does that help alleviate the concerns of the inequality squad?

No, I don't have to endorse a dick profile pic by accepting that unsolicited friend request.  I could care less if guys are offended that no one criticizes pussy profile pics or if they're overjoyed with women's unsolicited friend requests.  Double-standard?  ~shrug~  Pussy pics tend to be sexier even if the lady is wearing dirty gym socks and slouching in a beat up armchair that's withstood too many hours of Halo or WoW.  So not sorry...there's much bigger things to worry about.

No, I don't have consider someone as a possible play partner when their page is littered with a hundred women they've stuck their dick in.  Please somehow explain to me why I'm supposed to be impressed by this when I'm looking for an intimate RELATIONSHIP not a trivial booty call.

No, I sure the fuck don't have to read and sanction anyone's rant with a like just because they posted it.  Poor grammar, flawed logic, unoriginal thoughts, or shitty POV doesn't qualify as deserving of rewards, but hey...I'm old school like that.  Sue me.

Not everyone will get access to my corner of the sandbox let alone a damn trophy to make their ego feel better.  Go do you, just don't expect me to do you.  Last time I checked, I get to choose my own version of kink no matter how much you may whine.  ~eye roll~
~DominaKat

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