The 9 Service Languages | Intensive Session Wrap Up Thoughts

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On Sunday, I wrapped up my first small group FULL INTENSIVE workshop that spanned 6+ hours over the course of 2 days. Anyone who has sat through my Intro class knows, The 9 Service Languages is a fucking BIG IDEA! When I first launched my class, I naively believed it could be tackled in a typical 90-minute or 2-hour session. I quickly learned that was impossible and that few platforms (cons, orgs, mtgs) had the ability to hold space for me and attendees to get DEEP in the weeds of WIITWD as it relates to Service. I am PROFOUNDLY HONORED that @S-O-C—the Service Oriented Conference—reached out to me earlier this year to be a part of their inaugural Intensive Program. They were the perfect partner with the perfect target audience for an Intensive of The 9 Service Languages of Authority Transfer Relationships/Dynamics. The session allowed me to work with a small group as we got our hands dirty, dissecting where, when, how, and why we do Service and considered ways to adjust, tweak, evol...
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What to Do with Our Kinky Selves BESIDES Masturbate???

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Holy shit! The calendar is clear, the fridge is stocked with a whole lot of crap you don't really want to cook, there's a stack of toilet paper in the linen closet, and binge watching NetFlix is starting to get on your nerves.  WTF do we DO with our Kinky Selves???  Do you masturbate AGAIN?!?  ~sigh~ Damn...no buzz.  If you have a few minutes to kill while your favorite device builds a charge...

  • Listen to some kinky podcasts like: KinkyCast or Off the Cuffs or Touch of Flavor
  • Discover some new music!  Might I suggest checking out...
    • Jazz | Charles Mingus (personal fav - "Moanin'", Thelonious Monk (fav - "Don't Blame Me", or if you need something modern...Christian Scott aTunde Adjuah 
    • African Beats | Thutmose - Ride with Me or WuWu,  Ajebutter22 - Ghana Bounce or Yawa,  Joey B - La Familia or No Waste Time
  • Checkout some lifestyle-related videos (No...I don't mean porn!)
    • Leather Leadership Conference | Classes, Panels, Keynotes from previous years | https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDEN3gVfeUL6A-B_4HRc32g
    • ONYX Men has some GREAT clips!  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCV8MdsJFbgJql2qhDDcmXXg
  • Purge and DONATE some clothes you no longer wear or household items.  Folks are going to be needing donations more than ever before this thing gets through with us.
  • Learn a new skill! (Or practice your damn flogging!)  I'm personally very interested in cigar service...
  • READ?  And no...I don't mean social media!  My current list | http://www.dominakat.com/2020/01/2020-reading-list-v1.html
What are YOU doing to explore the lifestyle or in general to stay positive right now?

Stay safe & healthy!
~DominaKat

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