The 9 Service Languages | Intensive Session Wrap Up Thoughts

On Sunday, I wrapped up my first small group FULL INTENSIVE workshop that spanned 6+ hours over the course of 2 days. Anyone who has sat through my Intro class knows, The 9 Service Languages is a fucking BIG IDEA! When I first launched my class, I naively believed it could be tackled in a typical 90-minute or 2-hour session. I quickly learned that was impossible and that few platforms (cons, orgs, mtgs) had the ability to hold space for me and attendees to get DEEP in the weeds of WIITWD as it relates to Service. I am PROFOUNDLY HONORED that @S-O-C—the Service Oriented Conference—reached out to me earlier this year to be a part of their inaugural Intensive Program. They were the perfect partner with the perfect target audience for an Intensive of The 9 Service Languages of Authority Transfer Relationships/Dynamics. The session allowed me to work with a small group as we got our hands dirty, dissecting where, when, how, and why we do Service and considered ways to adjust, tweak, evol...

I Miss YOU

To my Community Friends & Family...I miss you!  I know I'm connecting with many of you numerous ways electronically, but I fucking MISS sharing space with YOU.

I miss your warm hugs.
I miss the smell of you.
I miss the solid-ness of you.
I miss watching you interact with those you love most.
I miss that subtle look you'd send my way of "WTF?" at something someone else may have said.
I miss your head leaning on my shoulder or (depending on height) my head on yours.
I miss putting my hand on your arm, thigh, or chest as I laughed in joy at our conversation.
I miss that side-eye glance followed by..."stop talking...I need a minute to think of all you just envisioned."
I miss sitting next to you on shitty chairs in a cramped room all for the purpose of simply sharing knowledge and energy.
I miss the friction of our bodies rubbing against one another as we moved through a crowded munch.
I miss the shared excitement and heat as we played together in a dark room.

I miss...
Your unpixalated face.
Your heat.
Your humanity.
Your physical presence.
Your tangible beautiful energy.

For me...I never took for granted those moments where we were live and in person, but you can trust that I value them exponentially more now.  I replay the hugs I shared that last weekend before I retreated to my apartment now 23 days ago.

Even as we stay STRONG and positive and oh so fucking FIERCE...I just wanted you to know.

I.
Fucking.
Miss.
You.

Stay safe.  Stay WELL.  I'll see you as soon as we are able!
~DominaKat

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