The 9 Service Languages | Intensive Session Wrap Up Thoughts

On Sunday, I wrapped up my first small group FULL INTENSIVE workshop that spanned 6+ hours over the course of 2 days. Anyone who has sat through my Intro class knows, The 9 Service Languages is a fucking BIG IDEA! When I first launched my class, I naively believed it could be tackled in a typical 90-minute or 2-hour session. I quickly learned that was impossible and that few platforms (cons, orgs, mtgs) had the ability to hold space for me and attendees to get DEEP in the weeds of WIITWD as it relates to Service. I am PROFOUNDLY HONORED that @S-O-C—the Service Oriented Conference—reached out to me earlier this year to be a part of their inaugural Intensive Program. They were the perfect partner with the perfect target audience for an Intensive of The 9 Service Languages of Authority Transfer Relationships/Dynamics. The session allowed me to work with a small group as we got our hands dirty, dissecting where, when, how, and why we do Service and considered ways to adjust, tweak, evol...

My Sadistic Lil Monster

For years, those closest to me have encouraged my Dominant kink side.  They hoped to see my ferocity translate in the kinky realm.  I dabbled from time to time Topping but could never find the right path in my mind.

I kick ass in the vanilla world, and my Ice Bitch/Warrior would absolutely rise when life demands their necessity. Yet I always kept them firmly within very defined boundaries. Some part of me knew I'd be unleashing something I couldn't control on the world.

My New Journey this year has expanded my kinky horizon on many different levels.  I've watched.  I've learned.  I've grown.

With each step something...more has stirred in the back of my soul.

For the first time, the pieces have started to fall together in my mind, and I've found my way to a buried dark dungeon.  I can now clearly see My Sadistic Lil Monster.  That Beast has always been a part of me, but has simply slept forever in my soul.  Her dreams have whispered to me for decades, but I never felt Her Hunger or Need.

My Monster has awaken.
And that Bitch is fucking hungry.

With every morsel I feed it, She grows exponentially. She's stronger now than ever and paces patiently in Her cage.  I am discovering Her - Her desires, Her tastes, Her boundaries, Her needs.  I am also learning how to control that Bitch.  We both understand that for the foreseeable future She will only ever run on a tight firm leash.

But make no mistake.  My Lil Monster will be free of Her cage soon.
~lick lips~
When She leaves those confines, that cruel Bitch will be hunting for prey.

You've been warned.
~DominaKat

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